My cousin massaged my feet?
I would like to start by saying that this is not one of these weird fake pornographic texts that weirdos are doing weird stuff to, this is something that actually happened.All this happened about 3 years ago, I was 14 at that time (I think, maybe a bit younger) and I slept over at my cousins home. He is 4 or 5 years older than me so he was about 18 I think. I slept on an air mattress on the couch and he did on his bed. After getting ready to sleep, he asked me if I could massage his back because it really hurt. I didn’t mind so I said yes. He lied down on the floor, on his stomach and told me to walk on his back. So I was basically like standing on him, you could say. I did that for maybe 10 minutes, again I’m not sure exactly how long it was and I think I said i was exhausted and if it would be okay to stop. He said „yes ofc, thank you so much“ etc and we went back to bad. Later on during that night, I stayed up late, watching TikTok on my phone. He suddenly asked me if I was awake and I said yes, he asked me if I couldn’t sleep and I said yes and i don’t remember exactly how but he asked if I wanted to sleep in his bed cause it’s more comfortable. I actually found the air mattress uncomfortable and I said yes. But we were on the other side so his feet were basically at my face like we weren’t right next to each other. I would’ve found that weird LOL. So we talked a bit and he thanked me for the massage and asked if my feet hurt from it. I said not really but he said it would probably hurt tomorrow and asked if he should massage it. I actually find feet disgusting and don’t like people touching mine so I said no thanks. But he said it would hurt and like „convinced“ me, in a way? I was lowk a people pleaser at that time so I just said yes. He massages my feet for a few minutes and then we went to sleep. Thinking about it, these few minutes were incredibly uncomfortable for me and I kind of saw him differently after. I actually asked ChatGPT for advices before (I know it’s dumb but j didnt wanna post anything) and they/he/ it (idk how to gender AI) said, that he was lowk like being forceful and it’s not okay since I was really young too. But I’m still in contact with him and we didn’t really talk about it but I still feel uncomfortable thinking about it. Actually, the day after, I slept over at their house again and he asked me to massage his back again. I did that and when he asked to massage my feet again I said no several times, he accepted the no and I was happy I could like stand up for myself. But yeah, please tell me what you think. Is he weird or am I an overthinker ? Maybe little bit of a backstory he never did anything like that again and is actually a really nice person except for this incident !!That’s it !